Have you heard of the genre of adult entertainment called “M-seikan”?
M-seikan=Masochist Erogenous
M-seikan is a service where women take the lead in pleasuring male customers.This genre is popular among men who have a desire to be thoroughly dominated.
The business format often involves dispatching ladies to the customer’s location.
They engage in verbal humiliation and use adult toys to dominate and please the customers. As it primarily caters to masochistic men, the play is entirely driven by the female side, and the female participants do not take on a submissive role.
M-seikan may involve using vulgar or insulting words to arouse men, stimulating the anus through prostate massage, engaging in humiliation play, or incorporating tools commonly used in SM. The session typically concludes with manual stimulation (handjob) or fellatio to induce ejaculation.
Moreover, M-seikan is known for its unique techniques, delaying orgasm, male squirting , and experiencing climax without ejaculation, known as a dry orgasm.
Men can also have the opportunity to experience multiple orgasms similar to women through a “dry orgasm.” However, whether one can achieve a dry orgasm depends on individual physiology, and it may take several prostate massages to become accustomed to it. It is recommended for those who are curious to explore a different kind of pleasure apart from the usual ejaculation.
Of course, services are tailored to the customer’s preferences, so even if a shop offers anal play as part of its basic services, you can request to receive services without anal stimulation if desired.
Even men who typically enjoy taking the dominant role in pleasuring women may find excitement in being unilaterally dominated by a woman on certain occasions. It is available to men of all types and preferences.
M-seikan establishments are beginner-friendly and provide a more accessible experience compared to hardcore SM clubs, which often involve intense activities like using whips or hot wax.
In M-seikan, the focus is primarily on pleasurable sensations within a comfortable range, and there are no extreme or hardcore plays involved. Each shop or course has predefined service offerings, and as a customer, you don’t need to do anything actively. You simply receive the services provided by the female provider, allowing beginners to enjoy the experience without any pressure.
It’s important to note that specific service details can vary between shops offering M-seikan services. However, most shops include basic plays such as verbal teasing, manual stimulation (handjob), and nipple stimulation. Many shops also incorporate services like anal play, prostate massage, and facesitting. Additionally, depending on the shop, you may find various additional plays available as either part of the basic service or optional extras, such as fig enemas, enema prostate stimulators, anal beads, glans teasing with pantyhose, or powder-based sensual massages.
Main Play:
■Facesitting
Facesitting is a play where a woman sits on the face of a man lying on his back.
In this play, you can fully experience the excitement that comes from the pressure and tactile sensations on your face! Enjoy the soft touch and aroma of the woman’s intimate parts pressed against your face.
At the same time, it creates scenarios where your visual senses are deprived, and you may be compelled to perform cunnilingus, arousing the submissive desires of masochistic men.
Furthermore, when one sense is blocked, our other senses become heightened. So, it can be enjoyable to receive stimulation on other parts of your body while in this position.
■Blindfolds and Restraints
In the realm of SM, elaborate and tight rope bondage is commonly used, but in M-seikan, it is more typical to use a blindfold to cover the eyes or lightly restrain the hands and legs with handcuffs.
Being unable to see anything and having limited control over your body can be arousing in itself. Similar to facesitting, blocking certain senses leads to heightened sensitivity.
Of course, this play offers the unique experience of being fixed in embarrassing positions or subjected to forced acts, allowing you to enjoy those situations to your liking.
■Orgasm Control
One play that can be described as an experience you can’t have alone is orgasm control, commonly known as “Jirashi play.”
The frustration of wanting to ejaculate but not being allowed to… This maddening sensation can become addictive before you know it.
Specifically, it involves being prohibited from ejaculating by your partner, deliberately receiving only handjob without release, or having the stimulation stopped right before reaching orgasm. It often combines with restraint play for added effect.
To fully enjoy Jirashi play, it’s recommended to abstain from masturbation before the play.
The longer you’ve built up the desire, the more intensified the effect will be. So, consider challenging yourself to a “no masturbation” period in the days leading up to the play.
■Prostate Massage & Anal Play
Anal play offers a unique pleasure and a sense of “taboo” that you can’t experience in regular health or sexual activities.
There are several methods of anal play, the most popular of which is prostate massage.
It involves stimulating the prostate gland located just below the bladder. Continuous stimulation of the prostate can lead to experiencing a “dry orgasm,” a pleasure similar to what women feel during climax, but without ejaculation.
This one-of-a-kind pleasure is something that most men would want to experience at least once.
Additionally, prostate stimulation can also result in “male ejaculation,” commonly known as “male squirting.” The prostate is an essential pleasure point in M-sensations, and its stimulation is highly valued.
By incorporating adult toys such as anal vibrators or strap-ons, the intensity and variety of stimulation can be heightened, resulting in even more profound effects.
How to have fun:
You can enjoy plays that you wouldn’t experience in your private life.
M-seikan plays often involve slightly more niche and specialized activities. Activities that you might hesitate to try with your girlfriend or wife, thinking, “What if she finds it off-putting?” or “It’s embarrassing to try it now,” can be explored without any worries in the realm of M-seikan services. One of the benefits is that it allows you to venture into play that piques your interest, especially if you feel stuck in the routine of your usual encounters.
When it feels good, let your voice express your pleasure.
To fully enjoy M-seikan services, it’s important to embrace and reveal your hidden sexual desires. Surrender yourself to the ladies services without overthinking and express your feelings openly when you’re aroused. It would be a shame to hold back when you’re receiving M-seikan services. By doing so, you communicate to the provider that a certain action feels good, which encourages her to be more proactive in pleasuring you.
Explore new fetishes and discover erogenous zones.
Many people often find themselves in a cycle of receiving oral sex, being licked, and having intercourse without much variation. It’s not easy to explore activities like verbal humiliation, bondage play, or anal stimulation without a specific opportunity. However, trying out previously unexplored activities can reveal hidden fetishes that resonate with you. M-seikan offers a chance to encounter a new side of yourself and further enjoy your erotic experiences.